ms sim: so what you gonna talk about?
cc : Friends in 4 Sukses.
ms sim: sorry?
cc : FRIENDS IN 4 SUKSES.
ms sim: okay! *finds my OET form* so who are your closes friends now?
cc : well..a lot lah.
ms sim: a lot? can you name them?
cc : lets see..*turns to look at my group and notice joo ann, su ling, huey ching, and others
staring at me* Joo ann, su ling, huey ching, linda, wei chi, meng swee..umm..who did i
left out? haha!
ms sim: alright. =) who are you not close with in class?
cc : hmm. that would have to be siva's group and the malay group. *realised i sound so
racist!*
ms sim: and WHY are you not close to them?
cc : i mean, we DO talk. it's just that its hard to communicate with them..

ms sim: okay..who do you think are your true friends?
cc : *easy question!* my group lah. and probably chandini they all..*TERRIBLE ENG!*
ms sim: okay..do you see your friends in school only and what do you all usually do?
cc : we go to the same tuition. well, we usually..hehe..gossip..=) and we would teach each
other things that we dont really understand. for example, i would teach joo ann
add math and she would teach me math..these kinds of things. =]
ms sim: *nods*i see, dont you find it boring to look at the same faces EACH AND EVERY DAY?
in school and AFTER school?
cc : *looks paranoid* NO! nonono!
ms sim: haha! alright..okay so lets not talk about friends you have in class only. what about
other friends from other schools? do you have friends from other schools?
cc : yeah i do.
ms sim: okay. so how do you keep in touch with them?
cc : thru internet and text messaging. =)

ms sim: okay. so here's a situation. if a friend of yours were to betray you..what would you do?
cc : as in?
ms sim: lets say she did a little thing that hurt you. how would you feel?
cc : depends on what she does. but normally i would forgive her. im a type of person who
takes things lightly. i dont keep things in heart.
ms sim: wow. thats good! because some people are very revengeful and its good to take things
lightly.
cc : *kembang* *xD* *nods and smiles*
ms sim: *amazed* okay. lets say you admire this guy for a really really long time. this is a big IF
okay? your friend knows about it. and she does something and the guy falls for her. how
would you feel?
cc : if the guy falls for her then i would accept the fact that he likes her.
ms sim: no no, i meant what if she DOES something behind your back?
cc : oh. i would be a little hurt of course.
ms sim: would you continue being friends with her?
cc : well yeah. maybe not as close..and definitely wont share secrets with her anymore!
ms sim: okay! *nods* what if she doesnt want to be friends with you anymore?
cc : oh. then let it be lah. i can live without her. there are many other friends better than
her.

ms sim: so you believe in the proverb saying,"No man's an island?"
cc : sry? *blur...shit!*
ms sim: no man's an island. meaning that you cannot live without friends.
cc : yeah. i do.
ms sim: you cannot live without friends?
cc : *shit..i jsut said i can live without that friend but..* yeah. i mean..friends are important!
to share your secrets to..i mean..you cant tell your parents everything!
ms sim: why not?!
cc : *shit!!* lets say your parents irritated you..you cant go telling off your parents that
they annoyed you, right? and okay even though i have siblings, i rarely communicate
with them because my sister's in china and my brother's in malacca..and me and my
other brother are not really close. so i cant really pour out my feelings to them. thats
why i cant live without friends.
ms sim: =) okay. do you think you are a true friend?
cc : yeah. i am.
ms sim: in what way?
cc : well, i dont go around telling people my friend's secrets..and i make my friends laugh..
ms sim: trustworthy. =)

ms sim: if your friends is madly infatuated with a guy..and EVERYONE knows he is a person
who plays around, what would you do?
cc : *smiles* haha..i've been through this..well i would advice her..
ms sim: how would you advise her?
cc : well, i would tell her straight if she's open minded. *thinks about own group and all oso
open minded*
ms sim: what if she isnt open minded?
cc : well, then we would hint to her.
ms sim: how are you gonna hint?
cc : -.-" i would put it in such a way that she wont know we are talknig about her. i mean, i
wouldnt go up to her and say,"YOU can't.." and such but instead i would either say,"If i
were you.." or make up a situation that is almost similar to her situation and..hopefully
she realises!
ms sim: but she's deeply infatuated with this guy and she couldnt see anything but the good side
of him and she wouldnt take your advice! what are you gonna do?
cc : i would continue advising her. if she still doesnt want to listen to what im saying, i would
gather my group of friends and we would figure out a way to open up her eyes!
ms sim: and if she STILL doesnt wanna listen?
cc : if she still doesnt want to listen to us then let it be lah. we cant do anything right? we
tried our best already! if she still dun wan to listen, its her problem! *sound so mean!
pai seh* =]
ms sim: *nods in agreement* true. okay. im actually glad you said you would
continue advising your friends because some people dont bother
about their friends, you know? *smiles*
cc : =)! yeah.

ms sim: okay. you scored 29 upon 30. =)
cc : okay. thanks!